Strange things are happening around here. I keep finding Jack's cushioned booster seat discarded to the corner of the kitchen floor, or sometimes hidden in weird places like beside the couch or under a bed. The step stool that has lived in front of the bathroom for the past two years has taken up residency in my kitchen. Now serving as a tool for Jack to access the cabinets and get his own drink. Then, last night I heard the exhaust fan running in the master bath. I headed upstairs and sure enough the door was shut. I peeked inside to find my little boy who responded "can you shut the door? I need some privacy."
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Jack and Grandpa on his 62nd birthday |
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Jack's been helping out with potty training his baby sister |
"But what about your potty seat, Jack? Don't you need your potty seat?" I replied "NOPE" was his proud response.
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Jack on his bike (and I'm thinking his noggin has outgrown the helmet…) |
I shut the door, and stood aghast. What has happened here? How is it that my son does not need a step stool to wash his hands, a potty seat to keep him from falling in the toilet, or a booster to reach the kitchen table? When we go outside to the swing set, he doesn't need me to push him… at all. Did you know he rode his bike a short distance without training wheels for the first time yesterday too? As I tucked him into bed, and he read to ME a bedtime story… I started to feel a little panicked. "Jack, I don't think you are going to need me anymore!" But then in his sweet endearing way Jack looked at me and replied "Of course I do Mom! I need you to bake for me, and to tuck me in. I still need you a lot." His reassuring hug and sincere eyes calmed my nerves. But deep down inside I realized I'm not sure who needs each other more, him or me:) So much of who I am, and what I do, is being his MOM. Clearly I realize he is only 4 and to say he would no longer need me is a bit dramatic. Sometimes it is just a bit hard to keep up with (or accept) the changing roles.
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NonaJane is all about riding her "BIKE!" but she can't quite pedal it yet |
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The kids' paychecks from their work with Hallmark! |
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